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Don’t Blame It on Rio

The porn star Vanessa Del Rio burned herself into the corneas of masses of American males now in their 30s and 40s

This article was published in the November 26, 2007, edition of The New York Observer.

The camera loves Ms. Del Rio.
Cecil Howard and Command Video; Caballero Video Company
The camera loves Ms. Del Rio.

Vanessa Del Rio made her last film 20 years ago. Yet people who weren’t even born then approach the 55-year-old actress on the street and tell her how much her movies have meant to them. This month a book of her life’s work, signed by Ms. Del Rio and weighing 12 pounds, is selling for $400 ($1,000 for a special edition that includes a drawing by R. Crumb). There was a book party in SoHo on Nov. 8, to which Bill Clinton was invited.

The former president was, regretfully, unable to attend, but there was an impressive turnout—hotelier André Balazs, movie director Brett Ratner, fashion photographer Sante d’Orazio. At 6:30 p.m., Ms. Del Rio stepped out of a 1960 Cadillac Fleetwood and onto a red carpet. Her raven black hair was teased up into a bouffant, and she was wearing a gold Cleopatra necklace, a long velvet coat slit to the waist, a leopard-and-patent-leather corset, black velvet pants and stiletto heels. She was accompanied by her boyfriend, Vito, and her French bulldog, Matilda. There were cries of “Viva Vanessa!” as she posed for pictures and signed autographs.

Also in attendance were members of the New York porn community: female-friendly director Candida Royale; cross-dressing expert Veronica Vera; Cecil Howard (who directed Ms. Del Rio in Babylon Pink); and Jaime Gillis, star of Deep Throat 2, who was accompanied by his girlfriend, Manhattan restaurateur and PBS chef Zarela Martinez.

Only 1,500 copies of Ms. Del Rio’s book, Slightly Slutty Behavior, were printed. One copy contains a “golden ticket,” good for a night out with her, to be documented by a “world famous photographer”—the book’s publisher, Taschen, won’t say who, but it could be Terry Richardson, whose 2005 photographs of himself receiving what he called “the best blow job I’ve ever had in my life” from Ms. Del Rio appear in the book.

On the cover is an image of Ms. Del Rio taken right after she’d completed a different blow job, circa 1976. It’s a romantic moment—the member in question belonged to her boyfriend at the time, George Payne, and the two were in the first flush of porno love.

The folks at Taschen would not lend me a copy of the book, and so for three afternoons I planted myself on an Eames chair in Taschen’s SoHo store and examined hundreds of pictures of Ms. Del Rio doing unto others, and having done unto herself. I did my best to ignore glances from patrons checking out El Greco, Bruegel and Caravaggio. I became very familiar with Ms. Del Rio’s carnal mouth, behemothic breasts, fleshy rump and piliferous 1970’s pudenda.

In the introduction, Ms. Del Rio writes: “Why does everyone deny being a slut? Why is it acceptable for a woman to have sex for money and not acceptable to do it because she loves it? Or for money and because she loves it.”

Vanessa Del Rio (née Ana Maria Sanchez) grew up in Harlem and the South Bronx. Her God-fearing Puerto Rican mother worked in a factory; her Cuban father was a jeweler and philanderer. He used to beat his daughter with an electric cord, leaving bleeding welts. “He doesn’t love us, he doesn’t love us,” her mother used to say.

Ms. Del Rio had an aunt who was a flasher, always pulling up her skirt; an uncle used to molest her while playing “horsey” in full view of her mother. She remembers being 14 and going with her mother to a Spanish movie house on 42nd Street to see The Virgin Goddess, which starred Argentinian actress Isabel Sarli, “the woman no man could possess.” “I want to be just like that,” the young Ms. Del Rio thought.

At 16 she lost her virginity to her boyfriend, also a virgin. After her father walked in on them, he stopped talking to his daughter and soon moved out.

Ms. Del Rio dropped out of Catholic school and worked at an insurance company, where she slept with the 42-year-old boss. By 19, she was helping a boyfriend—”Larry the Outlaw”—steal cars. For two years they drove around the country, taking drugs and getting arrested. She turned tricks and collected unemployment to finance their adventures. Up in New Hampshire the couple was pulled over by a state trooper, and Ms. Del Rio had sex with him to get Larry the Outlaw off the hook. That wasn’t really the sort of thing she found romantic, so she struck out on her own. She worked as a barmaid, a go-go dancer, then a streetwalker around Times Square.

At 22, she met a porn agent and became Vanessa Del Rio. Her first day on the job, she did a “double penetration”—an act she is credited with pioneering on film. She says she was so aroused, she blew the hippie cameraman during a break.

For the next 12 years she acted in 8mm “loops,” 16mm “one day wonders” and 35mm motion pictures—120 films in all. She made $40 a loop (a dollar a minute) and $150 for feature films, which paid her rent on the Upper West Side. At first she was cast as maids, then finally, simply and magnificently, as herself (Viva Vanessa, Deep Inside Vanessa Del Rio).

She became known for ravenous blow jobs and a willingness to try new things, like having sex with “little people.” She made her share of “roughies”—films that involved bondage and rape scenarios. The biggest penis she ever sucked was Dick Rambone’s, but she refused to engage in anal sex with him, so they used a stunt ass.

The first thing she did every morning was smoke a joint. She’d get to the set by 6 a.m., sit around doing drugs, wait for her scene, wash up, do the next scene, then go home and end up at clubs like Max’s Kansas City, where the porn people mingled with celebrities. She gave blow jobs in bars and one night went home with five gypsies, all members of the same family. Next Page >

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Rick (not verified) says:

Vanessa del Rio, what a woman. A strong personality who just wants to live her life and doesn't care about the hypocrisy and double standard which the society calls morale. Although she has done nothing wrong (except the drugs) the majority of people criticize and attack her just because she lives her sex fantasies. Especially religious fanatics, so called born again Christians, adjudge her and then they go home to have sex with children or pay gay hookers for sex. But also "normal" people condemn her. Men call her a whore although they dream of having sex with such a hot woman and women do the same because they are envious, they are too gutless to live their fantasies. And that is the reason they hate her.
I have to admit I would like to invite and spend a hot night with this classy woman in one of those quality hotels. I guess even now many people would think that's something dirty and obscene. And so what. Just let them breathe fire and brimstone, let them live their boring life. One day they will realize that their lives are controlled by that false morale and hypocrisy but it will be too late to change anything for the better.

BillD (not verified) says:

Should have mentioned her cameo on NYPD Blue. Anybody recall the details?

Jeff W. (not verified) says:

Thanks to George Gurley for the informative (and non-judgmental) article. I've had the same good fortune to both meet Vanessa Del Rio in person and interview her for a web publication several years ago. She was funny, down to earth and totally unpretentious. I can't say I agree with all of her life decisions, but at least she isn't one of those hypocrites who spends their latter years denying and distancing themselves from their actions as a youth.

Go 'head with your bad self, Vanessa. Stay as sweet, sexy and (slightly) slutty as you are. No apologies and no excuses.

Dian Hanson (not verified) says:

Nice work, George, but just for the record, the "d" in del Rio is lower case, Mr. Gillis spells his first name Jamie and I have not been the editor of Leg Show since August 2001. Since then I've written and edited all TASCHEN's sex books, including this one on my best friend and the greatest sex star of all time, Miss Vanessa del Rio.

Ms What? (not verified) says:

What kind of legacy do you leave after such a career? Do you really think that porn-stars make the world go 'round? Sure people choose for themselves but truly, I would definitely reach out to her. She even mentions that crying and acknowledging love are her biggest fears. Perhaps porn and stripping were means of numbing the fears- a way of dealing with the absence of love and emotional expression as a child growing up. I don't have the credibility to classify her- I'm just speaking from experience.

butterflysoup (not verified) says:

Yes, truly the female ideal.

PorkBundle (not verified) says:

So what DID Hilley think?

Hartford Johnson (not verified) says:

Vanessa's back. So what? The justifications for wild behavior:

-- impoverished child
-- molested
-- addicted
-- pays the rent
-- gets me a free ride
-- misled by men
-- "I am Woman"
-- "artist"
-- boon to the sexually handicapped
-- prison ministry (not quite)

I see her as just someone unable to throw off the idea that human interaction and sensation is the be-all and end-all. She says, “I like a good mindfuck and I like the chase and I like those moments between making contact. I like all the heat and all that expectation.”

But there is nothing to that -- it's all evanescent, a mirage and a hallucination. No one else has to "swallow" propaganda like this asserting otherwise.

BigVDRFan (not verified) says:

You Mr Hartford Johnson sound jaded and filled with angst about life my friend.
Everyone has emotional stuff going on Ms del Rio lived her life as she wanted and she seems to have a good handle on what makes her tick, unlike many of us.

So lighten up Dude get a little 'wild'

intorceptking (not verified) says:

vanessa you will be remembered forever, you are an icon in our society, i and the rest of your fans love you and wish you the best...mmmwaahhhh...

from m.peters
intorcept@gmail.com

Marv Hernandez (not verified) says:

I had the pleasure of meeting her in North Miami Beach in the late 80's or early 90's when my good friend and tennis partner 'N.P.' practically dragged me to see her (not that I needed much convincing). Despite getting up there in the years, she still looked very tasty.
At that moment I understood why my friend 'N.P.' moved from Germany to Miami ... he was in search of his own Vanessa del Rio!

JERRY BUTLER (not verified) says:

HMM,
THE LOVE WE MADE TOGETHER.
I CAN STILL REMEMBER THAT PUNGENT SMELL
OF OUR COMBINED JUICES.....................

LOVE,
JB

STIMPSON (not verified) says:

VANESSA IS A GODDESS AND I WILL WORSHIP HER EVEN WHEN SHE IS 65 AND OLDER. I'VE NEVER HAD THE PLEASURE OF MEETING HER, BUT AT LEAST I CAN READ YOUR BOOK WHEN IT BECOMES AVAILABLE ON THE EAST COAST. I ADMIRE HER HONESTY AND SENSITIVITY BOTH AS A PERSON AND AN ARTIST.

STIMPSON (not verified) says:

VANESSA IS A GODDESS AND I WILL WORSHIP HER EVEN WHEN SHE IS 65 AND OLDER. I'VE NEVER HAD THE PLEASURE OF MEETING HER, BUT AT LEAST I CAN READ YOUR BOOK WHEN IT BECOMES AVAILABLE ON THE EAST COAST. I ADMIRE HER HONESTY AND SENSITIVITY BOTH AS A PERSON AND AN ARTIST.

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