I never feel sorry for privileged young individuals that don't pass the bar exam. I had to work two jobs while going to law school, got crappy grades as a result, and had to work full time while preparing to take the bar exam. I passed the bar exam the first time.

I have also had to work 100 times as hard to get a fantastic job (because of grades) even though as far as I am concerned I had already paid my dues. Privileged students usually get good grades (and better jobs) because they have nothing else to worry about. No sympathy from the peanut gallery. A little taste of reality is good for everyone, especially silver spooners.