Interesting comments. Nearly half of the Jews in the US will accept your children as Jewish if you raise them as such. Still, no matter how observant you might be, you'll always find another Jew to tell you you're not observant enough... Anyway, the reason I'm writing is to give you a little hint: if you'd like to "make better argument" for yourself, the name of the movement is Reform, not Reformed. It makes a BIG difference, for those of us in the know. (Unless you were purposely trying to be facetious, in which case, jolly good, carry on!)