There are no bad Jews, only Jews. We don't recognize those who have completly renounced the covenant as Jews, but maybe G-d is not so forgiving. (Who knows?) Being Jewish isn't about self-loathing. It's about community, covenant, G-d. If you don't want to be a part of this relationship, you are lucky, because you can bow out. But if you don't want to play, why do you need to comment from the sidelines? Why do you need to explain your dissatisfaction to yourself?
There are no bad Jews, only Jews. We don't recognize those who have completly renounced the covenant as Jews, but maybe G-d is not so forgiving. (Who knows?) Being Jewish isn't about self-loathing. It's about community, covenant, G-d. If you don't want to be a part of this relationship, you are lucky, because you can bow out. But if you don't want to play, why do you need to comment from the sidelines? Why do you need to explain your dissatisfaction to yourself?