When I was young, I was taught to be polite, to smile at people and be friendly, to dress decently, to have moral standards, to be temperate. How come these things are now considered "quirky"? I've noticed that decent people of every religion pretty much act and dress the same way. How come Mormons are looked at like bugs in a jar, while their good Catholic or good Presbyterian or good Jewish neighbors, who live pretty much the same way, are pretty much ignored?