She needs to get her act together, and stop blaming everybody else for her short comings. I am not saying that it right that the paparazzi is in her business all the time, but she chose a life in the spot light. The paparazzi is around for people like us, people that are leaving comments like these. I do think that the media should back down a few hundred notches, but you are in control of your life nobody else, she needs to take responsibility. I also think that Kevin Federline is a piece of crap riding her coat tales to fame, but she is the one that did not show up in court to fight for her babys.