NY Observer > Maya Gottfried http://www.observer.com/taxonomy/term/29252/feed Articles from Observer.com en My Night With 3 Half-Jewish Writers, and One 3/4, at Makor http://www.observer.com/node/33365 I want to say more about my literary evening at Makor the other night, and about the four authors who read from their contributions to the book Half-Life: Jew-ish Tales From Interfaith Homes.

Laurel Snyder ran the show. The book is her brainchild. She's a tall pretty woman, 32, with high strawberry-brunette coloring and a strong narrow face. She's a go-getter. She got the book idea at the Iowa writers' workshop, as she informed us, and it is a good idea (though she's not the first, my friend Wendy Marston got in on the HalfJew stuff years ago).  read more »

You'd think because this is a religious subject, Laurel Snyder might be a spiritual person, but you'd be wrong. She doesn't speak in spiritual terms. She's a busy networker— editors of collections often are—and her talk was full of her networking experiences. ]]> http://www.observer.com/node/33365#comments Iowa Laurel Snyder Maya Gottfried Richard Nixon Tue, 27 Jun 2006 05:41:23 -0400 Observer Staff 33365 at http://www.observer.com My Jewish Problem, Cte'd: The Exclusivity Issue http://www.observer.com/node/33348 The Forward strikes a blow for inclusiveness, and calls David Beckham "probably the greatest Jewish soccer player ever." It does so (because he is a star, yes, but) because he has 1 Jewish grandparent, and probably too because he and his wife have embraced Kabbalist practices.

Compare to Maya Gottfried's experience. Gottfried, who has 2 Jewish grandparents, is a contributor to the new book Half/Life: Jew-ish Tales From Interfaith Homes. She read from her essay "Untitled," Thursday night at Makor. She described going to a Passover seder at which a rabbi's wife kept saying to her, "You're not Jewish," even as Gottfried, who was on a spiritual path and trying to explore her Jewishness, explained that her father was Jewish. Up till then, Gottfried had felt that she had "the best of both worlds." She walked away feeling that she "was nothing." The experience of feeling rejected was an important step in Gottfried's ultimate decision to be baptized as a Christian.

And the answer is No! to those vicious readers who say, You hate your Jewish background, why don't you convert like Maya Gottfried. I love my Jewish background. I love my scientist father and artist mother, I love my thinking sensitive fairness-loving Jewish DNA. I have always loathed my tribe's air of sanctified exclusivity, as I loathed that air among WASPs. The air that sent Gottfried tumbling the other way. God bless the Forward, god bless Gottfried, god bless America.]]> http://www.observer.com/node/33348#comments David Beckham Maya Gottfried Sat, 24 Jun 2006 06:49:41 -0400 Observer Staff 33348 at http://www.observer.com